Before Reality Gays, there was the Dear Mattie Show!

The Dear Mattie Show

The Dear Mattie Show is an advice podcast with a lil' bit of humor, a lot of heart, and a helping hand. Each week host Matt Marr, clinical therapist and comic, answers emails sent by listeners who need advice on love, sex, or any life lesson. To help Matt in his quest to make your life easier, he usually enlists a guest host-often a neighbor, a colleague, or the cute guy he keeps seeing at the dog park. To learn more or ask for advice, go to www.dearmattieshow.com.

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DMS 142: Megan Heyn & the Pressure of Plastic Surgery
Sept. 28, 2018

DMS 142: Megan Heyn & the Pressure of Plastic Surgery

This episode is so timely y'all. Megan Heyn opened up about her struggle to stay "beautiful" and how she actually found a voice for herself in challenging the beauty narrative. In fact, that's why she wrote and is funding her short film, The Fix. It's a comedy about the messages women receive to fix themselves to be perfect, and I didn't' realize what a deeper conversation this would invoke on the show. Truly loved having Megan on. Find all info or DONATE to her film! ART IS IMPORTANT! DONATE H
DMS 141: Erica Mandy from The Newsworthy Podcast
Sept. 21, 2018

DMS 141: Erica Mandy from The Newsworthy Podcast

The state of news is well...in a state, sugars! (See how I did that?) But seriously, is it fake, is it real, or is it all crazy? Loved having journalist Erica Mandy from The Newsworthy podcast because dang, y'all. She breaks it down and gives you some perspective on how to find out what is actually happening in the world. I've really enjoyed listening to her show too, y'all. Like for real. I would highly recommend subscribing because it really is a true perspective of what's happening in the wor
DMS 140: The Other Side of Saved with Nate Postlethwait
Sept. 14, 2018

DMS 140: The Other Side of Saved with Nate Postlethwait

Growing up gay, in the South, with a very religious and experiencing daily sexual abuse as a teenager--this was Nate Postlethwait's childhood. But this isn't a story about being a victim. Nate's story is about being a champion for other men to openly discuss sexual abuse and to live their life without the shame and fear of lies. A truly inspiring guy for a truly inspiring episode y'all. Follow Nate's travel and blog here: https://theothersideofsaved.com/ And download his podcast, THE OTHER SIDE
DMS 139: Emily Pereira and Being OK with Being a Beginner
Sept. 7, 2018

DMS 139: Emily Pereira and Being OK with Being a Beginner

Life coach, radiant woman, Mom, and badass surfer Emily Pereira is doing what we all want to do--leave our lives and live on the beach! Sounds impossible right? Emily thought so too and I love that in this show she breaks down how you can do it. Now I could leave you Emily Pereira's bio here y'all..but honestly, her story is better heard from you. So many women I know, I have no idea of what they want their life to be and when they get all the "things" they still find themselves horribly unhappy
DMS 138: Adam Cayton-Holland on losing his sister Lydia and writing Tragedy plus Time
Aug. 31, 2018

DMS 138: Adam Cayton-Holland on losing his sister Lydia and writing Tragedy plus Time

Adam Cayton-Holland, one of Variety ’s “10 Comics to Watch,” went from a sensitive kid growing up in Denver, Colorado, to a writer and performer with a burgeoning career as a comic. Adam was always interested in comedy – he and his sister, Lydia, spent their childhoods cracking jokes and running bits off one another. Their close relationship continued as Lydia worked at the door and behind the scenes of Adam’s increasingly popular comedy shows. Yet Lydia struggled with depression, and not even t
DMS 137:Shawn Pelofsky, star of her Stretch It Out Comedy Special!!
Aug. 25, 2018

DMS 137:Shawn Pelofsky, star of her Stretch It Out Comedy Special!!

I truly love this person. Shawn Pelofsky is one of those fearless female comics who refuses to be anyone but herself. A fellow Okie with the heart of your grandma and also the same dirty mouth as my grandma, Shawn is one of those comics who, after you see her set, you feel like she gets you. She's not making jokes at you--she's making jokes with you. I'm so proud of her stand up specials, and sugars PLEASE DOWNLOAD IT and watch. I promise you will laugh--and sugars we all need a great laugh righ
DMS 136: Rick Clemons and Living Life UnCloseted!
Aug. 15, 2018

DMS 136: Rick Clemons and Living Life UnCloseted!

Rick Clemons is a man who fought to live his truth and now his mission is to find yours. Life coach, speaker, podcaster, and fellow Southern Queen--Rick is one of my favorite Dear Mattie guests of all time. His show Life Uncloseted goes there y'all. #truthtalk I let Rick explain it best: "Stop it! No more mediocre living. Dreaming and not doing. Apologizing for living your life your way. Host Rick Clemons – bold move badass – sez “Live Life Uncloseted dammit!” Each episode he takes you on a bras
DMS 135: Katie Ward from The Enthusiasm Enthusiast
July 25, 2018

DMS 135: Katie Ward from The Enthusiasm Enthusiast

Host Katie Ward is an actor, writer, and mom. However, she's also feminist who values intersectionality and is easily excitable. On The Enthusiasm Enthusiast, Katie talks with the feminists influencing our politics, media, science, and culture. At the heart of every interview is the essential question, "What are you really enthusiastic about right now?" Subscribe to Katie's show on Apple Podcasts And listen to my guest appearance on HER SHOW HERE SUGARS! FOLLOW KATIE ON INSTA , and TWITTER. And
DMS 134: Andrea Klunder from The Creative Imposter Podcast
July 13, 2018

DMS 134: Andrea Klunder from The Creative Imposter Podcast

Andrea Klunder works with mission-driven individuals and organizations to help them use podcasting as a powerful tool for connection, trust, and social impact. She is the Producer & Host of Podcast Envy , all about the craft of podcasting beyond the microphone, and The Creative Impostor Podcast, a show all about how to take bold action in your life and work, despite the little voice in your head that says, “Who do you think you are? You can’t do THAT!” In 2017, she launched Power Your Story, a h
DMS 133: Actor, Director, and LGBT Advocate Charmaine Bingwa
July 6, 2018

DMS 133: Actor, Director, and LGBT Advocate Charmaine Bingwa

A true jack-of-all-trades, Bingwa will next star in the upcoming webseries Little Sista which she also wrote, produced, and directed . The show follows her character’s journey after she is forced to mentor an at-risk youth from a Big Brother, Big Sister program as part of court-ordered community service. It has enjoyed success on the festival circuit, winning the award for Best Screenplay at the LGBT Toronto Film Festival and earning selections in the Web Series Festival Global , Hollywood, Out
DMS 132: Lisa Foster and How to Awaken Your Life from Past Trauma
June 29, 2018

DMS 132: Lisa Foster and How to Awaken Your Life from Past Trauma

Lisa Foster helps make the dark unknown safe to explore. Her own Hero’s Journey began decades ago when she confronted her father about sexually abusing her. As Lisa began to heal from self-hatred, sexual trauma, and self- protection, she noticed something: The shame-based lens of our culture condemned her to a lifetime in the transformation stage as a “survivor.” But Lisa was determined to pioneer a path beyond survival, to an abundant, free, fully-expressed life without limits. Lisa created Par
DMS 131: Just me, Roseanne, and Racism
June 1, 2018

DMS 131: Just me, Roseanne, and Racism

Well when your guest cancels, sometimes you have to share your thoughts and get them out of your head. And boy, that's what I did this week sugars. I know this is different from what I've done before. Hope you like and if not--I'll be back to old Dear Mattie next week. Either way, let me know. I love y'all...SO MUCH. ASK MATTIE FOR ADVICE HERE!!! Subscribe to this podcast here on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-dear-mattie-show/id902469568?mt=2 www.dearmattieshow.com Instagram: @